Are we losing the capacity to connect deeply?
- Media is forcing an evolution in how we define ourselves.
- Media has changed the very definition of being a "self."
- Because of media, the way we portray ourselves to others has changed.
- Outside influences are changing what is important to us. Or what we say is important to us.
- Music and morals are uniquely linked in portraying identity.
Media is infiltrating our lives in ways we've never experienced before.
It is forcing an evolution in how we define ourselves.
We focus on things we like, not personality traits.
We are more emotional about objects than we are about actions.
We seek attention and approval, not fulfillment.
Media has changed the very definition of being a "self."
It is pointless to do something without recognition.
Why do we post our Friday night plans on Facebook?
Why do we have dating competitions on television?
Because we have to look good to everyone else.
We have to get the approval of everyone else, of course.
Media has taught us that, too.
If Stacy is going to make fun of my status, well, then I better not post it.
I dunno if Joe will think my favorite band is dumb...so I'll just put something cooler.
"Cooler?" Why do we care?
Because we live to be flattered.
We create a "self" that has the highest potential of praise and attention.
But what are the consequences?
Have we become so connected to ourselves that we cannot connect with others?
